Ways to Use a Vibrator


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Female Orgasm If you have purchased your first vibrator, congratulations! If you haven't, please read Your First Vibrator before continuing this article.

There are literally countless ways to use a vibrator. This article will introduce you to the basic, tried and true ways to use a vibrator. After you've mastered these techniques, branch out on your own. Time and exploration will teach you the ways to use a vibrator that work best for you.

Before you get started

The key to using a vibrator is proper stimulation. You're trying to get the right amount of pressure at the right speed on the right spot. This is the ultimate goal of all ways to use a vibrator.

Vibrators have varying levels of intensity. Keep in mind that it's always best to start slowly and build up the intensity. If even the lowest level is too much stimulation for you, try covering the vibrator or yourself with a soft cloth, or use lighter pressure.

Remember – your most sensitive areas are on the outside. You don't have to penetrate to receive full vibrator benefits.

Use sufficient lubrication. If you aren't sure how much lube is sufficient, use more. Too much is far better than not enough.

If you hold the vibrator in one spot, that particular area tends to go numb. So keep moving it around.

Ways to use a vibrator: the basics

First and foremost, do what feels good. Everything else is just technique. A vibrator does a better job of stimulating you than your fingers, a tongue, or any object.

Don't be surprised if your orgasms feel much more intense.

Ways to use a vibrator: techniques

First, try out the speeds on your vibrator. Familiarize yourself with them, and also with the level of noise each makes. (Some vibrators are surprisingly loud and they can startle the unwary right out of the mood.)

Use your vibrator to directly stimulate your clitoris and the area around it. You can do this while laying on your back or stomach. Gently stroke the vibrator around your clitoris with a circular motion. As you become more excited, increase the speed of the vibrator, of the circles, or the pressure. Most women report this technique brings them to orgasm within minutes.

If you have an insertable vibrator, you can use it to penetrate yourself while masturbating. This may not be nearly as satisfying as stimulating your clitoris directly with a vibrator, so two vibrators are recommended for this technique (check out a butterfly vibrator, which allows you to free up your hands). Don't forget to use a water-based lube when engaging in vibrator penetration.

Discovering new ways to use a vibrator is a great way to discover your sexual likes and dislikes. Set the mood for yourself and follow the standard female masturbation tips. Use the vibrator with different strokes and levels of stimulation. Many women discover multiple orgasms for the first time while using a vibrator.

So relax, explore, and enjoy. With time and patience, you'll find the ways to use your vibrator that work best for you.