Prostate Massage

Men have a G spot, too – it's called the prostate. Prostate massage is the method by which a man or his partner stimulate this male G spot, leading to much more explosive and enjoyable orgasms.

Prostate massage is a fairly straightforward procedure. All it requires is some lube, a willing partner and patience.

Prostate massage preparation

In order to receive prostate massage, a man must be willing to have his anus penetrated by a finger or a sex toy (though we recommend starting with a finger). Many men have negative associations with anal penetration – ranging from fears of latent homosexuality to simple discomfort.

In order to perform prostate massage, make sure your partner is willing to experience anal penetration. An erotic massage and a drink or two are a great way to relax him enough to make prostate massage easier.

Steps of prostate massage

Use a good anal lube to lubricate your index finger. Gently press against the anus until you can ease your finger in.

The prostate is located about two inches in, on the ventral (stomach) side of the body. Curl your finger as if beckoning to massage the prostate. When combined with penile stimulation, prostate massage can lead to mind-blowing orgasms.

Some men prefer more or less stimulation of the anus and the area around the anus during prostate massage.

Prostate massage tips

The lining of the rectum is delicate and susceptible to infection. Be gentle when exploring the anal region. Always use clean instruments or hands for prostate massage.

A good soapy wash before and after prostate massage is a good idea – it keeps everything much cleaner.

Many who haven't engaged in prostate massage before are concerned that it will be "dirty." But there's actually almost no fecal matter in the rectum. You will in all likelihood not see anything objectionable.

Remember, be gentle, go slowly and enjoy yourself. If you're interested in exploring anal play, read the information on anal beads, anal lube and butt plugs.