Oral Sex Techniques

Female Orgasm Although all women are different, most of them prefer the same kinds of things. These oral sex techniques are things you should try. The best way to figure out what she likes and doesn't like is to ask – and to keep your ears open while you're going down on her. If she asks you to do something, do it. The whole point is to make her feel good.

But if she doesn't know what feels good, or you're both in the mood to try something new, give these oral sex techniques a go.

1. Doggy Lick

Relax your jaw and leave your tongue soft. Lick from her vaginal entrance all the way up to her clit, along the outer edges of the vagina. Do this on both sides of the vagina and also try licking from top to bottom.

This is a great way to get started, especially if she's not very aroused. (Remember not to start on her clit until she's aroused.)

2. Tongue Penetration

A woman's vaginal nerve endings are almost all right at the opening and within the first two inches of the vaginal opening. Take advantage of this by sticking your tongue into her vagina. You can't really do a whole lot with this, because your tongue's relatively short. Try moving your tongue in and out and in circles around the inside of her vagina.

This is also a great transition exercise into intercourse. Try tongue penetration when you're ready to move onto full-fledged sex.

3. Flicker

Use your fingers to spread her vaginal lips. Point your tongue and then gently flick it on and around her clitoris. Don't focus only on the clit, but keep returning to it as it's the most sensitive part.

This oral sex technique drives some women absolutely crazy, though others find it too intense. Make sure to start gently and pay attention to what she says. If the clit is too sensitive, try flicking your tongue on each side of it.

4. Icing On The Cake

Spread her vaginal lips and gently pull back the hood of her clit to expose it. Now, give it a quick little suck – just put your mouth on and pull it away. This is a lot like licking a dab of icing off your pinky finger.

This feels incredible, and can be very teasing because of the briefness of the sensation. Don't use your teeth, or suck hard, unless she asks.

5. Clitoris Head

Take her exposed clit into your mouth and suck on it gently. Now, flick your tongue over and around the clit. Repeat.

You can do this lightly or more firmly. This is a great way to bring her to orgasm if she can withstand the intensity of the sensation.

6. Tongue Tube

Can you roll your tongue into a tube? If you can't, forget this oral sex technique. The tongue tube is a genetic ability and can't be learned.

This works best in a 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her clit. Now, slide your tongue back and forth (like your tongue's a mouth and you're giving head to her clit). This is very likely to bring any woman who can take the sensation an incredible orgasm.

7. Spelling Bee

Use your tongue to spell your name, or the alphabet, or the Constitution on her genitals.

This technique works well because it keeps your tongue moving in unexpected directions. You can remember her favorite letters and combinations more easily as well.

Don't Forget…

Keep your hands moving! Stroke her thighs, breasts, whatever you can reach. You can also finger her while giving oral sex.

Try giving oral sex while you have a breath mint or a cough drop in your mouth. The mint or menthol creates a great tingly sensation – but can be overpowering to some women.